No matter who you are or where you’re from, at some point in your life you will have an intimate relationship with someone. Over the past 3 years statistics show that the general age to begin a relationship is dropping. Young people from 12+ are having boyfriend/girlfriends, some are short lived whereas others are serious and can go on for years. This is not a problem as long as your happy, safe and comfortable.

By Sian-Amy Siviter

You like someone, they don’t know… So tell them already! So you fancy someone but they don’t know, now first things first, break-ups are a no no so check that he’s single. Second step; find out a few major interests they have so you can see what you have in common.

Don’t lose your nerve and get your friend to go up to him and say the common line of “my mate fancies ya”, if you want it done right do it yourself. A tip I would offer is to make yourself look your best so you feel confident. Although don’t go overboard, do not plaster yourself in make-up with four buttons of your blouse undone, you want him to like you not just your body.

If you’re friends with one of his mates you have an opening to talk to him easily, so get together as a group of mates and hint that you’re interested. Make eye contact and smile, be friendly. If you’re confident that you are capable of being sexy then go for it! If you’re shy and less experienced it’s a good idea to read up on flirting before this event. There are books on how to flirt nowadays, so get your girly friends to help you gain confidence and make a laugh of it one night. Practice makes perfect.

Don’t hold back, if he never knows, nothing will ever happen. What’s the worse that could happen? He tells you where to get off and says he’s not interested? Don’t be scared of rejection. Hey! He wasn’t that cute anyway move onto that blonde guy in your French class. Good luck!

TIPS: TEN DATING IDEAS By Sheridan Powell

If your having trouble thinking of places to go here are our top ten dating ideas for you to enjoy with your boyfriend or girlfriend, or perhaps potential partner.

CINEMA
Good for a first date, not so much pressure. The movie will provide a great talking point after your date.

CONCERT
If you both love music this could be a great activity, it gives you a chance to share a common interest.

GO FOR LUNCH
Lunch is a great way to get to know each other without the formality of going for an evening dinner.

ICE SKATING
This date is easy going and lots of fun. Plus you get to hold hands!

ZOO
A relaxing date and you get to share a new experience together.

THEME PARK
An informal date. You can encourage each other to try new things and have loads of fun on the rides.

GO TO THE PARK
Super idea for summer, you can spend lots of time together. Make it more romantic by taking a picnic!

CRAZY GOLF
Perfect for getting closer, adds an element of competition.

BIKE RIDE
Check out the local area and stay fit and healthy together.

TRY A SPORT TOGETHER
Try a racket sport like badminton, squash or tennis, it’s fun and also keeps you active and healthy.